So, a few weeks ago I had a "friend" who decided that she would talk to me about her boyfriend who's not her boyfriend and her problems with him. She was telling me all about him, and what she didn't realize in the beginning is that I knew exactly who she was talking about. The so-called man that she's been seeing (screwing every Friday night) is still married to one of my dearest friends. Not because this friend wants to be married to him, because he has not given her a divorce. I will admit that I do not know the ins and outs of either situation and that I do not care to know... What I will admit though, is that I find this situation HUMOROUS!
After trying to explain what I know to be FACT about the situation, I was accused of being a liar. I mean, the man that she's been seeing once a week and screwing around with for 6 months or so but doesn't want a serious relationship couldn't be a liar, right? After accusing me of lying, she started spreading her negative attitude towards everything I am and that I am trying to be on both my personal Facebook and on Alicia In A Small Town. Now, being the person that I am, I can find a comical rebute to damn near anything someone has to say, or I can at least come back with the God's honest truth and say how I feel, so I didn't delete any of it, I simply made the best of the situation and gave myself and some friends a good laugh.
The real kicker in the situation is that BOTH the chick and her fuck buddy are so-called Christians. They are the annoying type of Christians that post scripture on their walls, tell people to pray about it, and do the ultimate slap in the face "I'll pray for you" when you're trying to have a conversation with them. Don't get me wrong, I'm a Christian as well... I'm just not a holy roller. Me and God have things worked out, I know where I'm going, I'm just taking the bumpy path. These "Christians" though, I'm a little more concerned for them than I am for myself. I have never worried too much about me, because I KNOW the TRUTH. I know who I am. I know I am an honest person. I don't believe that either of them know the difference between the truth and all of the lies that they tell anymore. I believe that they are the worst kinds of Christians, they are hypocrites. I'm gonna pull my ultimate Southern card right now and say to them "God don't like ugly" so clean it up! This is ridiculous and you both need to get your acts together! And by the way, you shouldn't quote scripture in one status and be "woes is me" in the other... Remember, God BLESSES those who are DESERVING! Work on that.
One more thing before I go, I'll pray for you!
Hey girl!! My motto is "if he will do it with you, he will do it to you." It is these types of "Christians" that give the real ones a bad name. They are the reason that many are so against religion. Like you said, I am not perfect, but I do realize my faults and know that I am working on them. In my relationship with God, there is ALOT of humor.
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed your blog. I felt your pain as I read the profile that you provided. Sounded alot like my story......I NEED A BLOG OF MY OWN. lol.
I look forward to reading and "talking" to you again.
Jennifer Drew Tindol
Girl! I have tried to explain that to so many people...
DeleteStart a blog! I'll be more than happy to read it! =]
Well bless their little "Christian" hearts...
ReplyDeleteI try my best to not touch on "God" persay...but in this one God has a back seat so...here it goes...religious people have faith to fall back on when things get to hard to handle..(in my eyes anyway )..God is a personal thing...church as a whole tends to make a broad paint Job out of simple idea...when each person has their own idea of what God does or doesn't do...in this case...being religious and sleeping with a total assclown has little to do together ....love trumps everything and blinds the true believer ...sex is just a product of loving someone enough to say I give myself to you..in the religious sence of things....now this idea of what's happening.....lmao total one sided fuckbuddy..she likes him... he is not having more then sex..she is bitter about the truth..and cast you to hell because she is on the crap side of things...my words to her would only have been...sounds like you are in over your head...talk to a preacher ..and see what he thinks..That shuts people up about sex fast trust me......;) KLB
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